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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


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So, I saw a report from one of my users. They reported:

https://ponder.cat/post/1594852/1813842

For the reason:

Unreasonable fighting with everyone in every simple post

I think that's ridiculous, so I talked with them about it. Posting private communications is frowned upon I guess, but long story short, they weren't receptive. I've decided to ban the account.

IMO the general culture on Lemmy is that users are entitled to their free account and everyone needs to be careful and circumspect about limiting that entitlement in any way, but I don't see it that way. I don't think it's a requirement for me to provide hosting space for anyone who wants to use my stuff as a jumping-off point for abuse of Lemmy's systems, and isn't apologetic or receptive when I talk with them about not doing that. The fact that it's in service of harassing FlyingSquid in particular is just icing on the cake, since my perception is that people like to harass him apparently for no legitimate reason at all (with this as an example).

AITA?

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[–] bestboyfriendintheworld 6 points 3 weeks ago (12 children)

I understand abuse of reporting to apply for repeated frivolous reporting, sending spam, or similar.

This report could simply be ignored until something else happens.

A user reporting something doesn’t know how the mods decide. Mods will always receive reports, where they don’t think taking action is necessary.

Think what‘s your definition of abuse of report button?

So: PTB

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

Think what‘s your definition of abuse of report button?

I probably have a little different view of the social contract and responsibility of communication than other people. Again, not trying to repost someone's private communication, but when I asked them more or less "What's the justification for this report?" they weren't open to trying to justify it, just told me to do my own research. More or less. To me, probably more than other people, that's a huge sin. You need to have reasons for what you say, you need to be open to defending it if someone semi-politely asks you to, especially when your statement is calling for sanctions from authority or anything like that. It's part of being responsible with your communication and building a good community to be a part of.

Like I said, it helps that my perception is that there is "repeated" harassment of FlyingSquid in various forms. It means that any single report, even if it comes from an account that hasn't been doing any of it, forms part of a pattern of spam like you're talking about. But, I wanted to give the benefit of the doubt, and talk to the person and see if they were open to saying "That's a fair thing to ask me, I take it seriously, here is my defense of what I did / what I said." Again that's just my view on integrity of communication. I might disagree or agree with the defense, and either one is mostly fine, but if someone's like "it's not my responsibility, I just spew statements into the world and it's your problem to figure out if they are bullshit or not, without my help," they instantly go to the bottom of my shit-list. And, if they're already on thin ice because we're having the conversation because they're using my volunteer hardware to violate Lemmy's norms and that's why we're having the conversation in the first place...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

when I asked them more or less “What’s the justification for this report?” they weren’t open to trying to justify it, just told me to do my own research. More or less.

flat-out, I tell people not to dm me, even mods who have a problem with my reports. i do make an exception for my admins, but that's it.

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