Off My Chest
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It seems like most of your struggle is from choosing a new instance with a very low number of users.
I'd say just use lemmy.world
Apologies if this is a stupid question. I promise I'm not usually tech illiterate but this whole setup is new to me. How do I transfer my account to a new instance? Or do I just have to abandon this one and make a new account there?
Edit: yeah this instance I'm on sucks. Realizing now that it definitely does not let you access everything from there. A lot of communities I've searched for and thought were missing just aren't showing up in myserv.one's search results. Here I was thinking that there wasn't even a functional non-binary community in the lemmyverse or fediverse or whatever.
Aaand it looks like I found my answer. From what I can tell, the Lemmy devs consider import/export as good enough / the same thing as transferring a profile so they're just going to ignore the issue and never attempt to implement it. So I guess new account it is.
https://lemmy.world is a large general purpose instance that would certainly work. https://lemmy.blahaj.zone is a popular instance that is specifically gender diverse.
They both block the two most obnoxious instances.
Just make a new account. There is an option in the settings of the website to export and import your settings. I'll reply with a screenshot.
Thanks for the info but I ended up just signing up with lemmy.world in the mean time. Myserv.one doesn't seem to be what it's advertised as because I even only got the notification for your reply now, besides a bunch of images not loading and communities not showing up search (basically every queer or feminist space I looked up besides long dead communities, suspiciously enough).
lemmy.world is already 10x better. Didn't bother with import/export as I wasn't around on the old server enough. And I'd rather start over subscribing to communities somewhere that's actually going to show me all the communities.