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[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

It's funny because i learned 6 foreign languages, 2 of which to fluent level and another 2 to good level (and the other 2 to "I manage to get away with it" level ;)), and the approach of using of a dictionary to learn the meaning of the words which I tried at first didn't work at all well (it was slower and way more frustrating) and what did work best was just exposing myself to the language (in two different ways for two different languages, one by just consuming media of that language whilst the other by living in a country were people spoke the language) and going along with the flow without worrying about the words I didn't know, so quite a different experience from that.

Anyways, my point isn't that most people can't dig down on things by for example going into Wikipedia or that I wouldn't prefer if they did, it's that most people either don't have the time or the inclination to do so, and expecting them to be different is denying human nature.

In my experience with explaining expert domains to non-experts, you have to try and meet them in the middle, which will pull more people in to try and understand it that merely standing fast on my side of the domain language barrier and demand that the climb that mountain to get to me.

That said, some people will never even try, no matter how much effort you put in making it easy for them, and sometimes it's not even stupidity (which, as something one is born with, it's kinda excusable, IMHO), it's just laziness.