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Considerations for pursuing long-term relationships with guys? (programming.dev)

submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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At 31, I have had 6-10 sexual partners (depending on what counts), half guys, half girls. My female partners (including one transfem) were mostly interested in long-term relationships, as am I. My male partners were all hookups with no follow-up, much to my disappointment. As I am now actively looking for a boyfriend, are there any special considerations when courting men, as opposed to women, for this purpose?

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[–] clay_pidgin 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Straight here from /all. If you have a wide dating pool already, out of curiosity why are you seeking a male partner specifically this time? Just trying something new?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I prefer men. I enjoy uninhibited male sexuality, especially since I'm a bottom. It's not that I dislike women, but my sexuality has never been a good match for women outside of BDSM. I do not like vaginal sex and I do not understand all the cultural bullshit of gender roles which obviously don't apply to queer relationships.

[–] clay_pidgin 6 points 1 week ago

Thank you for replying. Yours is a perspective I don't share but it sounds like a reasonable goal! I hope it brings you happiness.