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Making friends in adulthood (beehaw.org)

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Is it really harder to find true, meaningful friendships (not romantic and/or sexual) in more 'adult' years or is this an introverts problem? I am quite introverted at first, I would never just start a friendly conversation with a stranger and work friends usually are just work friends. I moved to UK in 2019 and since then I had few different jobs and connected with people from work, but none of them wanted to stay in touch outside work. I was a bit confused, as I thought those people enjoyed my company as much I did theirs. Not even sure if this is maybe a cultural thing? I grew up in Poland and Eastern European people are more direct than British, so you know straight away of they like you or not. What are your experiences? How do you deal with meeting new people?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I moved to another country after graduating college and been staying for more than 5 years. I made 2 good friends, after all this time. 1 of them got married and having kids, we lost touch quickly after. And the other one is still going on only for one activity, hiking, which we only meet up a few times a year. I learned that I gotta put the energy to invite them sometimes.