ADHD

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A casual community for people with ADHD

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The single most thing that improved your ADHD? (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I commonly read youtube comments that state a drug like Strattera completely changed their adhd for the better.

Whilst I havnt tried this(yet) I wondered what other options exist?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Avoiding situations that allow others to define me on their terms.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm curious what this means. Did you find a way to turn those situations into "your terms" or are you just avoiding everything uncomfortable?

No judgement if it's the second, but that's not going to work in my world.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Something I did wrong for many years, decades even, was to focus exclusively on trying to improve the areas where I struggle compared to normies. I always felt bad because I found it so hard to do simple things that were easy for most people.

Gradually, I realized there are things I can do that the normies can’t. So instead of constantly trying to redeem myself by improving the things I suck at, I focus on those things I’m really good at.

For example, if I do a job that is all delivery, where I’m just executing rote tasks that someone else has defined, I’ll struggle. If I do a job that is strategic and/or creative and involves very little rote delivery, I’ll excel.

The problem was that school is mostly rote delivery according to a fixed schedule, and early-career jobs tend to be the same. I really struggled during those times of my life. But once I got to the point where I could get more creative/strategic work, the way my brain works finally became an asset rather than a liability.