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Women of Lemmy, do you mind being called cute? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Or do you prefer other adjectives? Do you consider it to be insulting or do you take it for a compliment if it was meant as one? (Assume an amenable relationship between the two people, not a random stranger or creeper)

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

As a male approaching middle-age this thread is confirming a lot of my suspicions that I never really had a firm understanding of. -Commenting on someone else's aesthetic appeal in relation to oneself seems to be an often questionable practice, especially if it's not someone one knows well.