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Well, what about people that aren't attractive. Are they supposed to never have partners?
They're not attractive to you. Everyone is attractive to someone.
Mentally, definitely. But we're talking about physically here. Physical attractiveness is pretty much the same across all humans, or rather what isn't attractive. Extreme mutilations and similar for example.
I take your point, and I used to believe that, but I learned my view was pretty narrow, compared to the options/tastes expressed by the diverse people I've met, since.
Nah, you grossly underestimate the kink community.