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Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s? (lemmy.world)

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

            
              Stay out of debt
Strength train (5/3/1 three or four days per week)
Avoid substance abuse
Only settle down with someone who is a HELL YES. If you're lukewarm about them, it's a no
Make time to do something creative like music, make it a habit
Say no if you're not interested in something or someone. Its ok to say no to shit