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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by wrenchmonkey@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

alt text: a tweet within a tweet. "coworker asked me my pronouns and I said 'they/them but I'm at work right now so it's whatever' and then she came up to me later and said 'this is you'" (showing a tweet that says) i'm probably nonbinary but i have a job so idrc about that rn

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[–] python@programming.dev 28 points 7 months ago (3 children)

This but also there's no good they/them in German. Gotta wait for the feature first.

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 17 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Just make shit up. Just do der/dem which will confuse the fuck out of people.

[–] headless1514@programming.dev 16 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] Maultasche@feddit.de 20 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Using das is like calling people it. So usually very insulting.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

People don't want to be a powerful entity that can shapeshift into anything it wants?

[–] Maultasche@feddit.de 2 points 7 months ago

They prefer to be a disembodied hand that comes out of a box.

[–] headless1514@programming.dev 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 7 months ago

lemmy pranked you by posting your comment twice

[–] beetsnuami@slrpnk.net 8 points 7 months ago

There‘s a reasonable proposal for „en“, so you can just use that

The german language is not bound by the laws of some institute, you can just use whatever you like!*

* Not applicable in schools in saxony, bavaria, schleswig-holstein, and saxony-anhalt.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Maybe ze? The way "they" sounds with a German accent?

[–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

I've seen dey/dem which I find just doesn't sound natural. I generally say "die Person" for gender neutral speech.

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"ze" is more like "the", no? I've seen "dey" been used sometimes, but it's not common at all

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"Ze" would be pronounced like "tsay." "Zie" would be closer to "the", sounding like "tsee."

[–] joranvar@feddit.nl 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Probably understood that in the wrong direction. Ze (eng. phon.) would be spelled more like "sie" (ger. phon.) and would sound like "the" with a German accent. They would become either dey (eng. phon.) or zey (eng. phon.), spelled like "deej" or "seej" (ger. phon.), or even without the y (or j) at the end.

I think. I'm neither native German or English.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

I wrote "ze" and "zie"from a German phonetic perspective. "Tsay" and "tsee" are the English ones.