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How does it feel being in a relationship? (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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The fact I'll die alone without ever feeling the love of a woman besides my mother and without a child saddens me. So, as kind of a consolation, I want to know... How does it feel? Being in love and being together, the sex part, just living together and all that...

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[–] hellothere 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

No, I don't think you're going to hit someone, but you did say worse people than you are in relationships, and I was reminding you that bad people do hit women, and scare them in to never leaving. Neither of us think that is the type of relationship you want.

As I've said before, one day you'll realise that your attitude contributes to - but didn't create - your situation. Insisting you are utterly powerless keeps you in that hole.

I am not saying you need to change. What I am saying is that the negative part of your personality is drowning out all other parts. Those parts are still there, they are still as much a part of you as they always were, but you just can't hear them.

You are not helpless, you are not broken.

When was the last time you can remember being happy? Think back, it may have been a very long time ago, what was it you were doing?

[–] [email protected] -4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You don't fucking know me. If I'm telling you that is the reality, is because it fucking is. I haven't been happy since I stopped being a child. Big fucking deal, I'm still here. And I won't kill myself. The world can suck my dick if they don't want me.

[–] hellothere 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What happened when you stopped being a child?

[–] [email protected] -3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Dude give up and fuck off.

Nothing will change and I don't want your "help" you're not helping anyone.

[–] hellothere 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Fair enough. Enjoy your life.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 6 months ago

I won't.