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rulegularly check their modlog to remind myself how burnt and sickly the grass is on the other side of the fence
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this post was submitted on 30 May 2024
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i checked out the logs and no comment except to say that misgendering two trans women probably did not help your case.
i don’t know anything else about this situation so please don’t try to bring any of that conversation here.
I won't bring it here, but I only know of one persona's gender that I refused to acknowledge. I can gather who the other probably was and that would have been by shameful accident.
Why refuse to acknowledge someone's gender at all? Its such a dumb hill to die on. Even if the person you are misgendering is objectively terrible, you aren't going to convince anyone you have a legitimate argument, because they will immediately and justifiably write you off for being bigoted.