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Advice on finding a partner? (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don't want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there's the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it'll come to me.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

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Plus a lot of very attractive people who get lots of attention have zero clue what it's like to be an average person who gets little to none. And they all think they 'are just average'. Or that other people should just 'make more of an effort'. Wealth has a lot to do with it too. Ask a welathy person for dating advice and they will just tell you go out and drop five figures out the latest fashionable designer outfits... which isn't viable for the person of an average wealth who is only spending like a grand or two a year on clothing.

Things are privileges because you don't know you have them. And pretty people are clueless about how they are treated and assume everyone else gets their level of interest.