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[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I feel like I saw somewhere that men message dozens of times more women than vice versa. I get their non-nuanced temptation but you can hardly call a system that encourages one gender to incessantly spam the other 'engagement'.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 months ago

I read that men have to send over 110 likes before they get a single response whereas women get 50-60 guys a day messaging them and they act really creepy like sending dick pics.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That's the way it works in real life tho...it's not the apps fault. Women always have more options than men.

[–] Jax 0 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I will never understand this take.

Logically speaking this is simply incorrect.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Have you been on a dating app? The experience is extremely gender specific. Men spend their time sending out as many likes as are available, and women spend their time sorting through likes they get. This is the experience for either gender unless you're at the very high or low end of the desireability spectrum.

[–] Jax 1 points 5 months ago

That is the way dating apps work.