Hi there!
spider
Speaking of which, I was in a discussion about that yesterday:
I specifically avoid .ml and .world because the collective behavior (i.e., hostility, downvote trolling, etc.) is so much like Reddit.
Beehaw, Hexbear and Blahaj have all disabled downvotes, but Blahaj is the only one that's decent, which is why I'm here.
(I would link directly to these if I could, but am having issues with that.)
For what it's worth, Discuit is also a generally friendly place.
No, but she does advocate directly contacting Republicans to vent your anger and frustration at them, vs. scapegoating Democrats, since they have less control at the moment over what might happen.
Speaking of which, if you've got an hour, have a look at this:
Heather Cox Richardson -- Politics Chat: January 14, 2025
She puts a lot of emphasis on the fighting back part, with ideas as to how.
I specifically avoid .ml and .world because the collective behavior (i.e., hostility, downvote trolling, etc.) is so much like Reddit.
Beehaw, Hexbear and Blahaj have all disabled downvotes, but Blahaj is the only one that's decent, which is why I'm here.
plus I wonder just how capricious they are
very
For example, I once referred to a bigoted minister as a "moron" and was accused of using "ableist" language.
After two more similar incidents there, I bailed.
I specifically avoid Beehaw, Hexbear and World for that reason.
the original "landed gentry" himself
You're running on a lot of assumptions.
I made a comment that had nothing to do with any of that. It received quite a few upvotes (10+), then someone misread it and accused me of antisemitic dog whistling, which was not the case. In other words, they were stirring up shit and making a bad-faith argument.
So I clarified my position, then other users piled on, the mod(s) deleted my comments, and I left.
And the user who made that accusation had made what could be perceived as an anti-Italian remark in a comment a few days before. My paternal grandparents were Italian. Needless to say, I was a bit upset that this person didn't follow the very strict standards that they held me to.
(By the way, Blahaj is also an LGBTQ+ safe space. The difference is, they're not assholes.)
Feel free to check my post history here; stirring up shit is not my style.
In the meantime, I'll leave you with some recommended reading, here and here.