I've just noticed that a number of the most egregious refereeing mistakes in the last couple of years have favoured Spurs
-Cucurella hair pull (Dean looking after his mate)
-Brighton disallowed goals
-Díaz goal disallowed (VAR farce)
-Man City advantage debacle
Personally I don't mind Spurs, I just think it's weird, and I wonder if there's something sinister going on
I think you're being a bit too cynical. The average person is appalled by and cares about any genocide. I'd say the main difference between the examples you gave is people's awareness of what's happening