aStonedSanta

I dunno why I hate web apps so much. But I found a Firefox extension that keeps me happy on my m2 Mac mini. Running asahi on it and it’s got all sorts of weird restrictions. https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/app-for-spotify/

This guy I love though.

I saw this guy scream “FIRE!!!” in a packed room once. So I decided I get to do that also!!

They are wanted for stability. I see you are framing it negatively though.

Yeah. It’s wild how such an ideology can take hold with a vocal minority. I understand wanting society to be able to change. But I don’t understand people wanting to go backwards socially or environmentally. It lacks all empathy imo. Sociopaths all around us 😐

Wait. Nerds being wanted in relationships is bad now? Lmfao. You nerds will never win. Wait. I’m one too? You are sure. Fuck.

1000% agree. It’s part of the entire problem. White people debating what is. And isn’t racist. Rather than a PoC saying. That was racist. And us internalizing that to make change.

Yes! People might respond with initial anxiety and fear. Simply due to surprise. But I’ve found smiling and calm tone can help transfer that into a normal exchange rather than me freaking out internally this person now thinks I’m a rapist/murder cause I said hello 😆

Yeah. In my case it’s a mix of my ADHD/probable autism competing with each other.

The ADHD makes me crave novel social interactions that have a lot of emotion and joy.

My autism makes this seem exhausting. Half the time it causes me to cancel before I can even achieve my ADHD plans. And it leaves me feeling way WORSE than if I have never agreed to do the thing because now I’m flaky to people that actually are okay spending time with me that.

So now I made plans. Got excited. Ruined them. And potentially damaged a friendship.

It be hard out here when your brains doing it’s own shit.

This is a good idea. Also if you find an employee that is nice. Tell them the truth. You are trying to work on socializing. You’d be surprised a lot of people really are happy to help you if you ask for help 💜

I’ve found when I’m feeling comfortable in public I notice other people’s belongings and can relate it to why I might want to interact with them.

Like if at the store I see someone with a band T-shirt I like I’ll try to just mention to them I’m a big fan and like their shirt. Is it gonna crate a friendship? Who the fuck knows. But I spoke to a stranger. And it wasn’t weird it felt friendly and nice 😊

Sad you are getting downvoted. This isn’t a boo both sides suck situation it’s a morality issue with white Americans.

Clearly the republicans are much much worse but denying and ignoring democrats biases entrenches the problem imo.

Man. I wish we had real laws against bribery.