A romantic partner demanding to install a nanny cam to watch me would be an immediate dealbreaker, I couldn’t care less what his reasons are. Even the ask screams abusive control. They’d lose whatever trust I had in them both for the absurd question and their reaction to my resounding hell no.
Imagine a life where you have to comb your own home for hidden cameras daily as though you’re staying in a shoddy Airbnb because that’s the life you’ll have with this person. Imagine what happens to those images when you’ve finally had enough of this type of treatment. Are you sure he hasn’t secretly installed one already? I’d nope out of that relationship at the speed of light.
A romantic partner demanding to install a nanny cam to watch me would be an immediate dealbreaker, I couldn’t care less what his reasons are. Even the ask screams abusive control. They’d lose whatever trust I had in them both for the absurd question and their reaction to my resounding hell no.
Imagine a life where you have to comb your own home for hidden cameras daily as though you’re staying in a shoddy Airbnb because that’s the life you’ll have with this person. Imagine what happens to those images when you’ve finally had enough of this type of treatment. Are you sure he hasn’t secretly installed one already? I’d nope out of that relationship at the speed of light.