I understand your general concerns but thankfully for this community the onlyfans example doesn't really apply.
I also would have preferred a solution where it's up to the individual communities to disable or enable downvotes.
Hmmm, that's weird. I did actually copy the link of my comment.
I wish I could disable downvotes in this community.
There are also, that I am aware of no communities like r/NSFW411/
The ownership of [email protected] was given to me by the original owner because of my attempt at making an r/NSFW411 equivalent for lemmy.
I was hoping there would be more people giving feedback or recommending new communities to add to it. (But so far there was only one person requesting to remove a community from a category.)
Edit: I also agree with the first part of your post. If everyone involved is 18+ and it's consensual, what's the problem?
I've got the image from https://realbooru.com/index.php?page=post&s=view&id=780239 and it is tagged with shiri allwood. According to a reverse image search that seems to be correct.
I think it's just the shadow of her hair making the right eye look kinda weird.
I've got no source but if you search for Fleshlight Creampie (Elle Rain aka Eeziss) you can find similar fleshlight creampie videos of her.
I would be troubled if i was bottomless outdoors or in public, too.
Did you forget the image?