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secret rule in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

That's what I used to think too!

In The Matrix, how are babies made? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 33 points 6 months ago (3 children)

No, if you die in the Matrix you die in real life

Who ARE... THESE people? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Am I here late? This post just has a . In it and nothing else

Explain bidets for me please. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago

It's a shower, but just for your ass

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how did you deal with internalised transphobia? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

It's something I'm really struggling with, thanks to it it feels like I'm obsessed with the idea of 'passing', like whenever I see other trans women who don't pass it gives me a little burst of dread, thinking that it's impossible to pass and I'd never be able to. That horrible fear of looking "like a man in a dress" like there's actually a problem with that outside of the societal expectation I've had slotted into my brain.

I know that you don't have to pass to be trans, and that all trans women are equally valid, and that what I really need to do is to let go of the idea of passing altogether, and just be happy being who I am on the inside.

I was just wondering if any of you girls have been through something similar, and if you had any advice. Xx

Here's another spam account. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

Better than CSAM

People who can control their dreams - what is it like? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

I assume so, it takes constant effort and practice to be able to do it at all though, that was over 10 years ago now when I was in my first year at university, I haven't had the time to dedicate to it since 😅

People who can control their dreams - what is it like? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I've only managed it once, flying around a featureless void, exulting in the feeling of control. Then a fistfight, again with a featureless opponent. It felt like controlling the dream to that extent and not waking up took a lot of brain power

This Blahaj account is spamming other instances like crazy in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Lmao I forgot about these spambots

The clothes you are wearing vanish in an instant. How does this affect you? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

I'm currently sat on the toilet, I guess I'd take it as my queue to go have a shower

This may seem kind of stupid but I am kind of stupid, is there a list somewhere of phrases that are stupid or insensitive racially or gender biased? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Jesus fucking Christ, I assumed it was a "hurr durr narrow eyes" racist thing, what you've said/linked is way worse

Not a fan of the new Rules in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Oh has that stuff finally dropped?

Vocal training - Technical vs Practice? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I've started recently too, something I took to heart was one of Vee's videos on goals and timescales, she said for basically the first month your goal should just be to play around with your voice, go high, go low, sing in a higher pitch than usual, just have fun with it. I've been doing that and I've noticed it's easier for me to maintain that higher pitch now

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Rowing is a terf, how do I prove it? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

So originally I was sceptical about the TERF claims on rowling (because I didn't want them to be true), I'd assumed terminally online people had decided something silly (as has happened before), but the more I looked at it and thought about it, the more I thought, "Ok, I don't really have proof here, but the odds are looking pretty fucking likely that she is, surely it'd be quite easy for her to just say something publicly like "trans women are women" and it'd be all over".

The problem I'm having at the minute, is my wife still thinks that it's all probably something that's been blown out of proportion, and I can't explain to her why I'm not excited by the new Strike novel, or why I won't play the Harry Potter game. How do I prove to her that it isn't something that's been blown out of proportion and that Rowling really is a TERF

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Neck rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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A little help with direct downloads (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

So with a little help from the megathread I have a particularly Good website for finding Old Games, and it worked yesterday when I downloaded systemshock2, but now I'm getting a 403 forbidden message. Is this from the site itself? Or is my ISP (virgin) cucking me?

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Ada you are our queen (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Don't let those shitheels from hexbear get you down. I joined in the 196wave but I've stayed because blahaj is the safe trans affirming space I need right now, and from what I've seen you've been a key voice in making that happen. Thank you for all the hard work you do!

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Bitterule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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