TotallynotJessica

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[โ€“] [email protected] 33 points 6 days ago (6 children)

I wish napping with another person was an everyday activity for me ๐Ÿ˜–

[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (13 children)

The other half is finding a cutie to pin down an-

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Than find a bold friend? ๐Ÿฅบ

[โ€“] [email protected] 34 points 1 week ago (4 children)

"He clearly became weak for rejecting masculinity and standing against us anti-woke fascists! We're obviously stronger because we follow strong leaders. We totally aren't cowards for only bullying those who are weaker than us!" ๐Ÿคฌ

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

It might be better to pursue it and eventually be honest with them. As you learn more about their flaws, they will stop being an unreachable figure, and start to become a person you understand. At the same time, you don't need to hide your feelings as much (they might pick up on them, as like me, you probably suck at being sneaky). They'll feel respected and understood, especially if you make it clear that you'll accept a rejection.

That said, only try this if you can spend a lot of time with them. If you can't see each other very often, it would be hard for even a super charismatic person to form a meaningful bond. If they give a rude rejection to someone being so honest and vulnerable, you deserved better. If they give a kind rejection, you can move on and might be able to stay as friends. All potential options are better than the alternative, so be brave!

This advice (that I have never tried) should be taken with a handful of salt. I just looked at what didnโ€™t work for me in the past, and assumed my anxieties then were totally counter productive. If someone was obsessed with me, I'd want them to behave this way. I want others to show me respect as an equal person, not hate themselves while seeing me as perfect.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

If those numbers mean what I think, the boys heard him out

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