That's called Stockholm syndrome
Honestly, Lemmy has seemed really nice so far.
Also Rexxit💀
Yeah, Reddit had a lot of communities that I loved interacting with and finding advice with. I do hope Lemmy gains enough traction to replace Reddit.
The same goes for Kalos-Paldea rivalry. They don't hate each other, they just want to be better than the other.
Profit. Simple as that.