[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Thanks, I'll try that! My eyes are definitely very oily.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Yus! Buy all the dresses!

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Things I've found out this week:

  • wearing a skirt makes me look pregnant (way too much belly fat)
  • makeup looks a lot better from a distance
  • eyeliner won't stick (tried liquid and pencil so far)
  • I have no idea how to do makeup
  • skincare makes a huge difference
  • camisole over t-shirt rocks!
  • buying clothes I like is fun!
  • still look like a fat old man in drag :(
[-] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago

Aww, that's so sweet! What a kind gesture. The outfits look super natural, and I bet they feel great! Love the hair, too.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago

You look so good, I'm jealous!

Thank you so much for posting the progress pictures. I'm facing losing a similar amount of weight as part of getting to where I want to be, and you give me hope.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

What a wonderful smile! And congratulations on the hormones!

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Seconded. I had a great time at university, but geez do I wish I'd come out then rather than waiting till now. That's just present-day me talking of course; please don't take it as pressure to do something you're not ready for.

OP, you have all the time in the world. You're not going to miss out on anything, so stay safe, OK?

[-] [email protected] 29 points 1 week ago

Girls are the best <3

Still haven't quite figured myself out yet, and I don't see myself turning away from girls post-transition, but... maybe bi? I kind of get all blushy thinking about it though.

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A poem (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I tried to put some feelings down in words. It's a bit dark; I hope that's OK.


A ship sailed over waters deep
Beneath a graying sky;
A sightless pilot at the helm
Dreaming of distant shores.

The clouds rolled in, the waves grew tall,
Yet onward pushed the boat;
What else to do for a lonely crew
Who knows no other home.

Insidious breakers beat the prow,
The sailor's grip grew tighter.
Far away from an unknown port
The ship began to founder.

To stay with these worthless timbered bones,
A barnacled prison cell,
Would bring an end to a pointless voyage,
And beautiful dreams as well.

One step, so small, into the dark,
Leave the ship to the ocean grim.
It matters not what the morning brings
For I was born to swim.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Hehe, I was forgetting I still have T skin...

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Shaving (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

If you've used one on your face, then You Know.

If you haven't, give it a go! You can remove a whole carpet's worth of hair in one swipe, with less irritation and super close. It's not as scary as it looks!

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Hello! Totally get it about the body hair. Up until recently I was very anti-hair removal (anything cosmetic really), but now I realize that was just jealousy :P In the before times, I'd shave my pits every so often, but I didn't really know why and felt shameful. This week I've been taking long showers with a razor, and it's fabulous!

Since I'm new here perhaps I should share my story (I'll save the "so obvious in hindsight" episodes for another time).

T minus two years: Follow a link to Contrapoints for analysis on the alt-right, end up watching pretty much everything. Huh, gender philosophy is quite interesting.

T minus one year: one of Azul Crescent's comics pops up in the global Mastodon feed. It's cute so I start following. Wait, is this a trans comic? Probably shouldn't be reading this, but ...

T minus two weeks: strangely fascinated with the daily posts. Huh, so this is what trans women are like? Must be nice to grow boobs (SUPPRESS THOUGHT). Still don't really get the comic though, perhaps I'd better read it from the beginning.

T minus one week: aww, that's so sweet, wish I was like Cheryl (SUPPRESS HARDER). Oh, hey, she has a youtube channel talking about trans stuff. What's egg_irl?

Google.

Scroll.

Oh. Oh no. Oh noooooooo.

Today: egg fully cracked.

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submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I thought it wouldn't bother me, but ouch... (not their fault; I'm not out yet)

Boymode sucks now.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

No, you're right - a large part of my recent panic has been "what if this destroys my family", and I know that's still on the cards. I thought about how I'd have reacted in the past if she'd come out as a trans man (probably very badly, although I'd be fine with it now), but eh, we've had our crises in the past (more than a few caused by my unhappiness) and pulled through. Que sera sera, and I'm cool with that.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

I know! This could be a really good bonding experience.

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submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

That is, wife (43) and daughter (12). Told them I was re-evaluating myself and who I wanted to be, and that I wanted to try being "cuter" (didn't quite have the courage to go further), and that perhaps men's clothing didn't suit me.

The wife was mostly "yeah, right" -- seemed happy that I was trying to improve myself but seems to think it's just a phase (maybe it is? idk).

But my daughter was right on board! Came up with a load of outfit and makeup suggestions, and proposed going to an anime convention together, dressed up. I asked her if she'd think it was weird for me to go about dressed as a gothic lolita, and the response was "no, I think it'd be cute."

So next step is maybe cute anime girl cosplay at home, with an ally!

I'm literally shaking with ... excitement? fear? relief? I have no idea. Ohgodohgodohgod what am I doing...

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egg_irl [transfem] (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I'll just be over here in the ~~closet~~ corner panik. Still cis tho.

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