This is so cute ! I'm happy for both of you !
Klnsfw
joined 1 year ago
I wouldn't pick a girl who could be underage
I live in France. If I wanted to move to any other Western country, the United States would be at the bottom of the list because of the health system.
It sounds like commonplace, but really communication is essential, between the two of you romantically, between the three of you as friends, and between the three of you as potential sexual partners.
There's really a lot to talk about: a first lesbian experience (for me, my first gay sex was a stronger experience than my first threesome), jealousy, what you do if one of you feel bad during the experience, Nami being aware that you don't like your body very much, your fears of damaging your romantic relationship, your respecutive fears of damaging a friendship, Nami's possible fears of breaking up a couple, and so on
And for now, it's not the practical aspect : how, when, everyone's limits, who with who (will it be a true triangle, or one person with 2 partners), STD, contraception..
It took months (almost a year) for my significant other and I before starting to explore uncharted territories, and it didn't even involve friends. Take your time to talk, even if it's terrifying and remember that you don't have to do anything rhis time before Nami leaves
I think it's even older than that. I remember a scene in Fight Club (1999) in which the main character gives a motivational speech "You are not special. You're not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else."
Have you checked your =B=?
Right : redhead, pretty face, lovely smile, floral tattoos, nice underwear
Years ago, I heard a poscast with a female porn director (Ovidie, if memory serves), where she gave a recipe for fake cum, based on egg whites and condensed milk.
You seem to be so cute and lovely. I hope you'll meet someone.
I'm in an open relationship.
On a romantic level, she's my only partner. We were in a large group of friends with shared hobbies. After several months, since we were close and I liked her, I asked her out for a drink, just the two of us, if she wanted.
If it's for more than sex, I need to take time to meet people, know them, see if we have the same values, the same life projects, if there's an alchemy between us.
On a purely sexual level, I go to gay saunas and I always find new partners there. Some of them have suggested meeting outside the sauna, for gay or swinger booty call, but I don't want to take the risk of someone falling in love (me or them) when I'm already in a loving couple.
Tbh, at first sight I was like "wtf they're talking about? Is this a regexp or some kind of string formatting? In which language?"
Ahaha I hate you. Have a great day !