I am not going through this wall of BS point by point but here is a fine example of how I know you have no clue what your talking about...
One place I strongly disagree with Graphene OS is the sandboxed Google services framework. They say having Google in a sandbox is more secure. It may be more secure, but it isn't going to be as private as MicroG.
MicorG has privileged access to you phone, it literally has no privacy benefits over even standard Google Play. You are just choosing to trust MicroG with that level of access instead of Google.
Honestly just don't use GOS if you don't believe in its benefits or at least sack up and post this on their official forum.
This is the new generation in a nutshell.
"Hey someone other then me should do this thing I want"