As soon as I get home from work I immediately change into a skirt or short-shorts and my choker. I'm lucky in that my fiance is totally supportive and actually into it. I only wish I could wear it to work.

No matter what laws you make, someone somewhere sometime is going to decide to break them. In any given society, someone will eventually get mad and try to murder someone else, or steal something, or just be a general nuisance. These people need to be dealt with. Being black, or homeless, or poor should not be a crime and should definitely not be a death sentence, but those aren't the only laws that police enforce. Try not to be loudly hyperbolic and people might actually take you seriously enough to consider your ideas.

Thanks, that's a great guide!

Thanks, I just get too excited and can't be bothered to wait it seems. I have a larger suction cup dildo as well that I enjoy deepthroating, but I'm too nervous to try and ride it yet.

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It's actually there on mobile, just hidden.

you look delicious

When you say you feel like you hit a wall, how deep are we talking? When you use lube, are you applying it directly to the toy, inserting it via an applicator or something, or both?

2"-3" deep, I rub some on my hole and use a pre-lubed condom, I get the sense that's not enough.

For me, i hit a ‘wall’ at about 5-6in inside me that requires me to focus, relax, and position myself so my insides align to allow me to take it deeper. Positioning training is good for this- what positions work best are different for everyone.

What position do you find works best for you? What kind of mental preparation do you do? I smoke a bowl of weed and touch myself for a few minutes to get in the mood but thats about it.

Thank you for the help, it's great to find this community so welcoming. I'll definitely be sticking around!