https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/ maybe? But if you don't like the state of gay communities, it would be worthwhile to contribute with content on those instances and create a snowball effect.
Do you ever go outside, switching from wifi to 4g?
My password is 4, it was randomly generated with a dice. Every few months I roll the dice again.
I'm an engineering manager, started from the bottom now I'm here. Really, went junior dev / qa - dev - senior - staff then software architect then technical manager. Management is as hard as coding, but in a different way. Just because someone is not smashing their mechanical keyboards 8 hours per day doesn't mean they're lazy.
some people don’t understand even the surface level of how a computer works
Most people don't understand even the surface level of how a car works, but it's not needed, they can drive. Same with computers, you don't need to understand how they work in order to use them, thanks to MS & Apple (no, I will not include Linus Torvalds).
Sounds like a tipping point to me, but I am not smart.
Consider instituting a “read only reddit” policy
One should also log-out of Reddit if possible.
Move out of the woods.
A location might be useful.
Slap that first fucker that ventured on land from the ocean. Let humanity be mermaids.