I would say NTA. But I'm not surprised he was upset. If he participated in selling the old car with the expectation that the car you inherited was taking the place of the old car and would be mutually owned, it was because there wasn't clear communication.
Regardless, he doesn't get to make unilateral decisions with mutually owned property. So even if he thought the car was mutually owned, he can't just make decisions that disregard your opinions.
I don't necessarily think it was kind to call her an idiot but it doesn't sound like she was being kind either.
I feel like I would have just told her to look it up online when she wasn't getting it and moved on from the conversation until she left.
So I'm taking NTA over all. Sounds frustrating.
You know, I don't think I mattered that much to Reddit at large. I mostly lurked and occasionally posted.
But I don't need Lemmy to be as sprawling as Reddit.. The people are nice, the topics are interesting, and I'm finding instances that I want to subscribe to every day.
I'm ok with it.. Reddit can burn or just go on without me. I'm happy here.
This is good advice. I was very sad about losing rif but I've been having a wonderful time finding new communities on Lemmy.
That looks great