Beth

Hey Sam 😊

Thanks a lot for your Interesting response!

Very good point, respect is a must! And it's cool if people have hobbies whether those hobbies are something outdoors or indoors.

Yes! Aftercare and cuddles are another must!

A lot of times I'll see a good looking guy but he'll have this weird/cold/off-putting attitude and that is such a deal-breaker. But I'm sure a lot of women can be like that too. It costs nothing when someone is friendly and nice to hang with 🙏

Thanks for your thoughts and recs 🙏

Yeah I'm noticing myself that Lemmy has a lot of (techy) people around. Just curious because it's a shame one website has monopoly over everything.

I don't think NSFW content is bad, I feel like in fact having different sections for NSFW posts makes community bigger because it attracts people.

I did notice that a lot of people have "sex is dirty" mindset (elsewhere not here) and then they can get pretty rude and underhanded like anything goes because basically they associate sex with something dark and secretive.

And I agree with you that in those instances having good mods is essential. It's a fine line how to mod properly but not scare folks away.

Fighting together 🙏

Where are ya'll hiding? 😊

Yeah totally! I don't think online spaces as being devoid of human connections, rather another venue where to possibly meet people one could connect with IRL

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Great answer that gets into the nitty gritty of it! I like tastefully done tattoos myself. I agree about being curious and that trait being attractive

No, not at all. If anything I've gotten a few polite and friendly messages but nothing mean or arrogant (yet)

I just don't think there are that many users for NSFW communities to be super active.

Makes eye contact with you 😏

Either way, I really liked reading your comment!

I absolutely love your answer! Not because I agree or disagree with it but because it's descriptive, original and draws from your own experience. Totally what I was looking for. Too bad people don't post too often at gonewild, it'd be interesting to see your contribution

No, I'm good thanks 👍