NtopNG might work for you..
Maybe even observium
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NtopNG might work for you..
Maybe even observium
not sure about any existing solutions, but you could assign specific ports to containers and record network traffic on your router.
https://grafana.com/grafana/dashboards/893-main/
this would allow you to log the network usage per docker container, and you can then use grafana's integration function to get total data sent/recieved over a period of time.
this was just using a quick google search
Ah, it makes use of cadvisor which I already have. Seems good, I'll check it out