Mildly Infuriating

It's kind of nice when people reveal themselves to be insufferable douchebags at the outset rather than wasting your time.

white text on yellow background, that's infuriating

How do you read light yellow text on darker yellow background?

"It's something you've never heard of"

"How do you know?"

"...because I'm never going to tell you about it"

I've never had such an annoying color combination for a text message.

This is literally out of these incel playbooks. Straight up tater tot bullshit lmao.

If someone does not take the least amount of effort to answer a simple question like that one .... then he doesn't care about you in the slightest.

"But its a generic question!"

Two words: common courtesy.

You don't want to date that guy, let the process work.

So glad I’m not going through this any more. I think I’d rather be single than do online dating again.

But you got to know what kind of person she is, right? The app did its job.

Basically why they are single, you must be desperate lmfao

Time to move to the next chat.

It's was Nickelback

Online dating is one of the most exhausting experiences of my life.

He's thinking "what does music have to do with me getting sex as quickly s possible?"

"It's just this old Papa Roach song, you've probably never heard of them. I'm just really unique like that."

What a cornball.

Bro doing "being mysterious" the wrong way

This is a red flag. It means he listens exclusively to Nickelback and Creed.

As a dude...

Dude...

Almost as infuriating as giving chatGPT compilation errors and going in circles for a code fix

This is so weird. The first response was somewhat acceptable if in a joking manner but then he quintuple downed.

Someone's insecure about his Shakira collection.

Seriously though, I'm guessing this guy either doesn't like music at all (I've known a few and they act like this) or got made fun of a lot for his music tastes in high school. It's a shame this guy is probably a walking insecurity.

Which is a great reason to unmatch him and move on.

Id say she got to know just about eveything she needed to know about this person.

That yellow background is so unreadable 🍌

I think with the horror show dating has become in general, people are becoming more and more afraid to be vulnerable in even the slightest perceived ways. 😞 There's a reason for the loneliness epidemic. Between mass narcissism and guttural fear of winding up with a person who will just use/abuse you, I'm shocked I haven't seen worse. 😐

Why be frustrated? This person just saved you a boring evening.

Probably something like My Little Pony remix

If that person can't share music, god knows what else they can't share

If I have to pry answers out of someone, I'd rather cut my losses and move on.

Does this guy think he's cool or mysterious?

Is this real? That was painful to read.

Kudos to you for demonstrating interest in getting to know whoever you cross on these platforms (a rarity these days...) 🙌🏽

I relate to your discomfort. I usually unmatch or block such vibes bc the point of these apps is to date, which implies getting to know each other. If one is unwilling to put in the work (as minimal as it may seem), just spare folx who are interested in the above.

So much has changed in the dating scene. Sometimes, I am asked why I am being nosy or psychoanalyzing them. 🙄 Dude, you're on a dating app, right?

P.S.: I respect boundaries, but such questions are essential in familiarizing oneself with someone.