A well balanced retractable ballpoint pen. The type with aluminum body. I can make it rotate on my hand, and push the button really quick to help me focus. The trick is to push the button but not fully, in order to not produce any noise that could annoy people around you.
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Pen and paper pad? Look serious like you are taking notes but you are doodling dinosaur battles.
Saw someone mention spinner rings
Just a ring you can wear and discreetly spin
Hmm, that could be an option - will look into it, thanks :)
This was going to be my suggestion! And a ring is great because it's always with you, no bag or purse needed.
I’m a huge fan of https://fidgetland.com/flipit-fidgets/ — they’re quite small, and can be entirely unnoticeable if you get the nearly-silent “Stephie” version and your hands aren’t in plain view. 🙂 I keep a few different ones in different places!
I’m not sure if this would be something you’re interested in but if you get a cheap 3D printer there are tons of very interesting free fidget devices on thingiverse. We’ve made a ton of them.
Are there any in particular you would recommend? I know a friend who has a 3d printer who I could probably ask for a favour, but I wouldn't know where to start...
My favorite is pop its!
If you search for "haptic fidget" on etsy there's a bunch of small, unobtrusive ones. If you like two pieces of 3D printed things you can slide around with magnets. My favourite is embedded with rolley balls on the outsides but there's all types of them.
i have a soft leather keychain that i clip to whatever bag i'm using, it's not overly fidgety but it is a pleasant sensation