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submitted 4 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago

I support her journey.

Closely.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Twitter user detected, opinion disregarded

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

What? Humans talk about sex all the time even with all their puritanical taboos and restrictions. Do zoomers think they're the first generation to have raunchy language? Sharp difference between obscenity and regarding oneself as a complete sexual being.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (34 children)

The foundation of sex is consent. If consent (including hearing about it and discussing it) is absent, then it is torture.

And I literally mean rape and sexual assault should be considered torture, because they are and they have the same effects on the brain as classic forms of torture, and indeed both SA and rape are used as a form of torture in war. Look at the mass rapes in Ukraine. It's not for sexual gratification, it's to torture people, and they also happen to get off on it.

People have different boundaries around what they discuss, especially personal info. It's important to respect that.

If you want to experience a less inhibited place, I recommend checking out a sex club.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (15 children)

Ok riddle me this. How can we normalize sex, if women have to walk on egg shells because any sign of platonic affection or romantical availability (in their eyes) will be met with unwanted approaches from certain parties.