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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

I mean, it just depends on why. I don't look down on it as a whole, but if you're in a relationship and doing it on the side, I think you're a scumbag. That would go for women, too though.

I personally wouldn't date a man who's into that, I'd be too worried they'd indulge while we're together, and that's a hard no for me.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

My opinion is based on an older gentleman commiserating on how difficult it was for young impoverished students to pay for everything nowadays. I was in debt, and had at just that moment come out at the LGB soc. That person was my bank manager.

Subs that pay doms don't bother me at all.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I believe a lot do not care whether the sex worker really does the job as a free decision. I think even more have no respect for sex workers. A few do not see sex workers as people, but rather as usable bodies. A few go to sex workers because they are misogynists. I think a few use it to be unfaithful towards their partners without their partners having the same opportunities.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I've got to get around to learning how to do this... it's so much easier just to wank and move along with your day.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Disposable income and need for intimacy lol. Some things are not just about the sexual pleasure but fulfilling specific fetishes

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I think they should be [REDACTED]

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Think of the local economy

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

No opinion. Not my business.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Why not. As long as no one suffers, it's fine by me. It's a transaction like any other. Just be a decent human being (which applies in every context) and I won't think any less of you.

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