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my oh my i’ll be needing a copy of that jpeg yoink
Do we? I didn’t know.
No this is probably one of the most chill decently big spaces for trans people on the internet. There will always be trolls but to say that "lemmy hates trans people" is kinda wild.
In this very thread people are arguing that trans people using neopronouns are being weird and bad
I mean yeah posts like these are like fresh meat for the hungry wolves that are transphobes. Where else would they gather if not here.
Yeah. That’s what I thought.
This user keeps creating accounts with dragon in the name, posting hateful stuff, getting banned. https://lemmy.world/comment/13376926
Ah, so that was the post that got everyone confused. Including me.
I think you drag stuff on too much instead of cleanly split from those you find issue with. In my recent history my comments are like 'nice comment', 'smart comment', 'funny comment', nice, smart, funny (in my fantasy delusion view of myself lol), and then one that's like 'WTF U ABSOLUTE TRASH HOW DARE U' etc etc etc 'BLOCKED'. That's cuz someone said something rude to me.
Key thing is the mods know that, since block happened, this is a one time event. the norm is peace or the instant attaining of peace.
Similarly when confrontations irl, every time i have police called on me, I make sure to say enough that they know it wont be a repeat thing. Whatever crime I could be pursued for doesn't matter since the region is now safe.
Because I cleanly and instantly cut bad connections, even tho i often do it viciously, the drama basically ends at that point, so I am both ok with mods and my lemmy experience just gets nicer and nicer (more chill and peaceful). I think you tend to do the opposite and bring places you feel wronged in to other places instead of just cut them.
Just my advice. I like you and think you are one of the more interesting beings.
Thanks, but drag had no intention of starting any drama. Drag was doing some observational comedy. Seinfeld type stuff. Working drag's daily experiences into a joke. Drag thought the meme was clever and would be well-received. Drag wasn't expecting people to go bringing a whole lot of drama into the thread.
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