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she really is !! <3
she seems so reasonable and polite - and understandable and and okay with herself - it's hard to not want to be her!!!! >:3
REAL
Wanting to become a better listener seems like a generally empathetic thing to do.
hmm well i try to be one so i can be one of the peeps who actively say
i love listening to people babble
but unfortunately i am not there yet.
it's hard, i have come to just sit and nod and give interest-affirming sounds
like ah - mhm
and ooh right ~
but those might sound fak!!11
also thanksies for commenting on the post, it means a lot to me!!! <3
I made some simplifications and adjustments to compensate for your brainworms :
Seems like you're on the right track! You just need to go to a tea party and improve your self image <3
yeaaa the brainworms.. watched that vid too. i was never on the 4chan tho!!
but woah that video - it applies to me way too much, even tho i was not on social media platforms that much before the lemmy. and i feel comfy here with peeps like u <3
I wasn't referencing that video, or 4chan for that matter. It's more that brainworms is a good term to describe any irrational thought process that empowers self hatred and destructive behavior. The earliest I remember hearing it was Pink Floyd's The Wall:
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But it was only fantasy
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The Wall was too high, as you can see
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No matter how he tried, he could not break free
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And the worms ate into his brain
aaah, thanks for sharing! i only know the word from that one vid and i remember relating to it so yea (>v<)
You are adorable.
I hope you’ll get invited to tons of tea parties :)
awwww thanksies!!! hmm maybe i should not post these kinds of posts cuz i fell like im pulling the wrong types of responses ...
kinda exactly what i say in the post, where i don wanna make peeps feel uncomfy an so i avoid big sad posts.
see, hmm maybe this is a good idea. i was really not trying to pull pity comments, which, i understand, yours does not clarify as (yours is just a super comfy nuu u go and get invited to tea perties or else >:3
comment i think).
a think to look into i assume.
Hai fren
Haiii! <3
I remember u! You used to have a cool pfp, but then it disappeared... Why is it gon now?
I have no clue, I'll try and put it back.
It back!!
this one is - kind of it? i think? hmm i remember some super comfy cozy outfit wherewehehehere u had like a character who wore comfy top with slight shoulders free an some straps underneath forofror bra holding an i thought :o omygoh what a style :ooooo
an then it was GONE and now im imagening how things used to be ;(
.... :(
I know exactly the feeling this depicts
forget about force-femming, we can go a step further
force-fluttershying
butttt!! 1 - -- !!! i'm not force-fluttershying, i WANT to be like fluttershy!! nobody is forcing me to, i just think that she has a good character which is worth striving for!! <3
this is me happily fluttershy-aligning!
imagine how cool it'd be if i was selfless!
lil rant about fluttershy ~ ~ ~
fluttershy is SO amazing.
there is this one episode where an evil minotaurus comes over and she wans to have more pulling through powers so she asks him for som help. an he goes AAAAAAA and yells at her and gives her an example of how being selfish can be good for u.
then, naturally, fluttershy thinks that this person has a good point and becomes eivl over the course of the episode. then at the end, she realizes that she had become evil only because of something she wanted. she locked herself away in her room (with help of sweet buni <3 ) and told others that she will not come out because she would hurt her friends.
obv in the end she realizes that this is a bit overdramatic and she turns back into being a nice comfycozy person, but that was SUCH a good edpisode!! <33<33<<3<3<33<3
My point
fluttershy is a flawless character and if everyone were more like her, we would have zero problems.
the "flaws" which are shown in the episode are not her acting bad, they are about others acting bad to her and then her not knowing how exactly to handle the situation while still trying to achieve a comfy outcome for everyone.
if everyone were literally fluttershy, we'd literally not have wars n stuff.
no one would be left out or behind, there would be no evil selfish people who wanna take all the stuffs for temselves.. imagine the world we would live in !! <3
it would be SO much better and anda dndnad we would invest into the most reasonable and useful things instead of what makes the most moni
but i would love love love to be like fluttershy!!! i really wanna be nice and comfy to talk to, i wanna be able to be comfy to be around.
I also wanna be soft-spoken and sweet and and i wanna make you happy and i wana make people happy who are around and i wanna make i wanna wannaanana make people enjoy their time when i am there.
i dont need to be important, it's just important that people are okay with me around. i wanna be like a small spoon. not big, not trying to steal the show. just serving as a reasonable utencil for eating ~ ~ ~ ~
actually, i gotta ask, what is force-femming?
It's way better to have a tea party. And you can have them by yourself.
I had one this morning with myself and some perfectly brewed tea and some English muffins and my very most favorite earthenware mug.
There's a whole thing about little girls having tea parties with their stuffed animals. You don't need other people or even stuffed animals!
I have mister blahaj! I might wanna try that out <3
Thanks for the recommendation!
I am like 2 seconds away from writing up a big "how to do a tea party" post. I'm one small push (and one friendly location) away from it.
wish i could have tea party outside with mr. blahaj, but peeps would be lurkin and lookin. X(
so sadly that cannot be the solution :(
i have had multiple dinners and breakfasts with mr. blahaj tho, and i have drunk some tea with him too sometime at home. which i guess u could call a tea party <3
awwweee :c
~~big feels tho~~
You staying home, alone and sad. Makes me sad :(
nunununun!!! that can't be!1!! please what can i do to help u qwq
EDIT: Actually I am fine alone, im an introvert so it's fine. being alone is a good time for me. i program stuff and that makes me happy, because of the program-something-and-get-it-to-work loop I have with Godot Game Engine.
So no need to be sad! I am literally all gud!
There was an and, so if you aren't sad and alone, then I'm not sad.
You making anything nice with godot?
hmmm okii uhm so like - naw nu way - i'm not sad at home, i get to play Veloren with a totally sweet person sometime and sometime else i go out for eating soome fries with a fren, so i am not sad at all! alsoalso also i get to watch mlp which INCLUDES Fluttershy, so that must mean i am hapi!!1!1
About the Godot: Not doing that much, but having fun with the engine. Made two meh game jams and am making some shid ai tool like literally everyone else rn, so nothing actually fancy quite yet. but im working on it!! hopefully some day i'll be making a cool thing which make people go ah, ey, thats mildly interesting, i might even look at the github page once
<3 <3 <3 <3