While I haven't used it personally, I hear hetzner.con is a decent choice.
Edit: it may not be 100% what you're looking for (thing account management), but it might work for most of the case. Just throwing it out there as an alternative.
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While I haven't used it personally, I hear hetzner.con is a decent choice.
Edit: it may not be 100% what you're looking for (thing account management), but it might work for most of the case. Just throwing it out there as an alternative.
Have you considered the Nextcloud software? It has all the features you've listed and you're in complete control. There's a ton of web hosts providing it, with various degrees of quality.