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Was just talking at dinner with family, and it seems a logical action to ban circumcision, as in most cases, doesn't have consent, and is a major (genitals are important) body modification. Can we ban it at the state level? Just a thought.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 months ago

In my country circumcision is only for medical reasons

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I would have loved to have the option to keep my hoodie on or not. I have a wicked crooked scar down there too. It doesn't keep me up at night but if I was given the choice I would have said no.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago (3 children)

(at the risk of making a truly stupid joke)

You could wear some pants instead of trying to cover it with just a hoodie.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

Because it's "traditional".

Prepare for all sorts of excuses that appear to be along the lines of "Americans don't know how to wash their cocks".

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Banning medical procedures is never a good idea. Circumcision can be a necessary measure to improve someone's genital health. Banning circumcision could also result in legal troubles for other surgeries where a scalpel needs to be brought into proximity of a penis.

Compare this, for example, to cases where bans on abortion resulted in doctors unable to carry out obviously necessary steps: https://www.cnn.com/2022/11/16/health/abortion-texas-sepsis/index.html

What could be banned, though, is mutilation of a minor, i.e. no consent and no recommendation for this procedure from a doctor.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

We are talking about the non consensual circumcision of infants. Of course if an adult wants one done, they should be allowed to go do it, or if it is actually deemed medically necessary. 99% of these circumcisions are not though in the US. That's what needs to be banned.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

because (and I recognize the irony) some people actually need it for health reasons.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 months ago

This is the obvious exception

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Those are rare exceptions and it should only be done after puberty AND if it can't be resolved conservatively AND the person consents to the surgery. That's something else entirely than doing it to children.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

From someone who is trans and circumcized without consent at birth.

From my personal experience it's religions way of controlling people, they believe mutilation of kids genitalia is good if stops them from doing whatever there religion dictates that's bad (like pleasure of sex and masterbation)

When blocking people from having transgender surgery is against there beliefs because it gives people control over there life's and body which most religions strictly enforce through gaslighting and manipulation.

This is all from my personal experiences with religion and being trans.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (12 children)

Genital mutilation is incredibly sad and people are somehow tricking themselves into being ok with it because they can't get they dick tips back lol

Remember that cult where dudes were required to cut their balls off? It's the same cult.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

Because Jeesssuuuusssssss

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

Same reason they want to ban trans medical procedures. "Family values"

It's tradition, so supporting it means supporting the status quo. Change is scary, and throwing shade at the past means throwing shade at all the people who've been harmful things all their lives. Can't have that, then they'd be to blame for not doing better (even though most probably didn't know better nor had good resources to know better).

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

because we are a stupid, prudish, and vain country. we don't want people to enjoy jerking off too much, nor do we want to reverse the trend of mutilation, which would make the old guard feel like they're the broken ones

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (8 children)

Assuming you’re talking about male circumscission, the short answer is you’re about to be inundated with accusations of antisemitism.

As for female circumcision; it is illegal in the US. The Stop FGM act was signed into federal law in 2020.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (16 children)

I am not pro circumcision, but as someone who worked in peds urology before, a parent of a new son really should take a moment to ensure they are actually going to be able to keep the kid's penis clean, because phimosis and balanitis and later childhood circumcision are pretty awful. Betnovate cream can resolve a lot of it but making that decision later in life when you're at the point of excessive scarring and infection because you weren't honest with yourself about your ability to keep you kid clean is a bad way to end up. If you honestly are squicked out by penis hygiene as a parent just go ahead and circ them in infancy so you don't put them through hell later. That is way worse.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

Soap on dick is hard.

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