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I'm an American but studied abroad in Denmark for around 6 months. When I was there, I found out that the Nordic countries have virtually eradicated down syndrome by testing pregnant people for it. 99% choose to abort. How do you guys feel about this?

Personally this is quite disturbing to me. I've known people with down syndrome who live happy, quality lives. Even if it is up to the mother whether or not to abort, when it happens 99% of the time, is it not cultural eugenics? It seems the culture is almost afraid of taking care of a child with down syndrome. Especially in one of the wealthiest countries in the world, where the resources to take care of them are more widely available. If you could test for other things like autism, or even something like extreme depression, would yall do the same thing?

EDIT: I am strongly pro choice and I have talked to many American people on both sides of the political spectrum about this and they unanimously agree with me. On an individual level, I support everyones right to make their own decisions, but when it gets to the population level it becomes more of a cultural issue. There seems to be a cultural agreement that children with down syndrome are too difficult to care for. Does that make it ok to eradicate them? I honestly don't know


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The original was posted on /r/denmark by /u/queen_bs at 2024-03-13 15:12:18+00:00.

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Particular_Run_8930 at 2024-03-14 12:12:04+00:00 ID: kutnwjv


Regretting your children is also just a really difficult position to take. Both because it so fundamentally goes against our ideals for what a good parent is, but also because the child you regret is likely one of the persons in the world you feel the greatest love for, also the child is its own person and saying (or even just feeling) that you wish someone else to not exist is potentially really hurtfull for that person.

All in all regretting your child is such a difficult place to be in mentally that it really is a thought you cannot afford to entertain for too long. To be happy in the life you have to accept what has been given to you.

All in all I find a survey as the one posted to show far to little nuances in what it actually entails to have a severely disabled child.