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How difficult is it to get an IT job in Denmark as a transwoman? (leddit.danmark.party)

submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I have over 30 years IT experience and in my mid-40s. I'm a US citizen living in Japan and considering a move to Denmark. I'm wondering how difficult it would be to find a job as an IT (cloud) Architect or software engineer while being an obvious transgender person. (I don't think I pass as a woman by a British mile.)

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The original was posted on /r/denmark by /u/LoreZyra at 2024-02-12 11:00:49+00:00.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Dovelark at 2024-02-12 17:53:59+00:00 ID: kq40dxs

The assumption that trans people "make it their personality" is pretty bigoted by you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

brokenarabesque at 2024-02-12 19:15:41+00:00 ID: kq4erll

Your entire post history talks about nothing else except how you are transgender, except when it is linking to your OnlyFans (!) which is also explicitly themed around trans adult content.

So when I refer to people who 'make it their entire personality' and try to grab attention for it, which is something that doesn't sit well with most Danes? I mean, yeah, like that. Thank you for providing an example.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Dovelark at 2024-02-12 19:51:29+00:00 ID: kq4l13s

IRL I make it so much my personality that no one around me except my family knows I'm trans, and I never tell anyone, not even my doctor. I'm "stealth" in public and at work and just live like any cisgender woman.

That's how much I make it my personality. Dumbass.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

brokenarabesque at 2024-02-12 23:45:24+00:00 ID: kq5p7dx

You don't count actual videos of your actual body on the internet as part of 'IRL'? That's funny. I guess if pretending it's not 'real' helps you sleep at night, then be my guest.

Meanwhile, I am cracking with laughter at the irony here. I have now been called a 'dumbass' by a furry onlyfans performer. :D Possibly the most mindless type of human there could possibly be. It's funny because I genuinely have nothing against trans people. Nor do most Danes. But most people do have a problem with camwh0ring. Don't you see? It's so obvious that the problems you are facing with people are not because of your gender identity, but by the type of attitude and personality you have. Regardless of whether or not they have seen your junk, people will not like the persecution attitude that you have acquired.

Onlyfans. God. What a way to throw your life away. Did you ever consider that some people might treat you like trash because you are treating yourself like trash?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Dovelark at 2024-02-13 04:39:45+00:00 ID: kq6w0t8

Did you ever consider that I keep my real life and OnlyFans work completely separate, and that no one I know irl except my husband knows I do OnlyFans? What makes you think the two are in any way connected? How can people judge me for doing OnlyFans if they have no idea I do it and will never know I do it? And how am I throwing my life away when I literally have a job as a medical engineer already?