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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] 0x4E4F 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is true, but it is hard.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It is hard, but it's absolutely worth it and can be made easier if you slowly transition rather than going cold turkey. No way I could have stopped without nicotine gum. Once I finally forced myself to throw my vape in the garbage and just kept using nicotine gum it was really hard to justify going back to vaping/smoking. Smoking (~5 years) -> Vaping (~5 years) -> Nicotine gum (~3 months) -> Regular gum (still using)

[–] 0x4E4F 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Well, gum is not that healthy either, but at least it's cheaper 😂.

Kidding, it's a lot healthier than smoking, that's for sure.

Damn, I've been smoking for 22, 23 years now... started when I was 16 😔.

I gave vaping a try once or twice (can't remember), but I caughed a lot from it... I'll give it another shot, people here gave me some will power ☺️.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

When I would take clients to a smoking cessation therapist, one fact that she would cite was the fact that quitting cigarettes is more difficult than quitting heroin.

I would also be told anecdotally by many of my clients that it was harder to quit than other hard drugs like meth and one person even said crack.

It can certainly be broken, but addiction is a disease and your comment could come off as condescendingly minimizing an incredibly difficult task.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, I can count...

Someone voiced struggling with addiction and your overly simplistic response could easily be interpreted negatively in a demeaning way.

Person 1: "I'm having so much trouble with my obesity..."

Person 2: "People can lose weight."

Can you see how that is not very helpful and potentially demeaning? How someone can feel that trivializes their struggle?

If you had stated something like "Addiction is so difficult, but it can be broken. Don't give up hope." That is totally different.