Lemmy

The biggest hesitation point for me was "instance" - it's an odd choice of word IMO, and it made me immediately start thinking "I don't know what that means, I don't want to look stupid, I don't want to get it wrong, I don't want to make the wrong choice..." etc, etc, etc...

I got past it (obviously, since I'm here) but I think it's something that could be better.

Particularly (and I realise that this isn't the only use case) for people considering coming from Reddit. They understand that the structure is Reddit.com/subreddit/post/comment

Obviously comments and posts match up between Reddit/Lemmy,, and "communities" are basically the same as "subreddits" so that's ok.

But "Instance" doesn't really have an equivalent, especially when you consider "Lemmy" to be equivalent to "Reddit"

In a way though, I feel like Lemmy is not equivalent to Reddit really. In fact Reddit would maybe be more equivalent to an instance - except that it's the ONLY instance in that particular space. Whereas with Lemmy, there are loads of similar and interacting but nonetheless distinct 'Reddit's

Maybe the metaphor for new users needs to be, imagine if there were dozens of 'Reddit's, that were independent of each other, but which could (usually) talk to each other, so you only needed to join one to see (almost) anything on any of them.

I dunno, maybe this is all nonsense, I'm just kind of musing on it as a very new user of Lemmy who is enjoying it but find it hard to explain in a way that appeals to people stuck at the same hesitant stage I mentioned in my first paragraph.