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I try to keep in mind that everyone around me isn't acting with perfect and constant skill or patience in their interactions, and have their own issues and anxieties big or small.
By that I mean "you are too sensitive" tends to come from someone being frustrated that they don't know how to behave towards/around you. Often it helps a lot to forgive them the initial mistake of blaming you, assume their position for a bit, and approach them for a conversation starting with "yes, I am sensitive but it's not something I can turn off".
I could see this approach working, and I will take it into consideration next time. However, in this case, this isn't the only instance of gaslighting. This person knows what they are doing and are certainly doing it purposefully.
Ah. So they are trying to shut you down for a weakness instead of accomodating it?
It sounds like you have the most important part handled already: noticing.
Yes! Thank you. My eyes are seeing it clearly now that it was pointed out 👀