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[–] [email protected] 26 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

Wow I almost feel singled out by this. But I presume that this is supposed to be in public. Which by every account is a dick move.

However I do this in private, I.e. in my car or at home. And the reason I do it is because I can't hear a call without using the speaker phone. Hearing issues aren't fun.

However the easier solution is headphones, but calls over Bluetooth can make things worse, from battery life to sound quality.

Wired headphones are the preferable solution to this but we all know what happened to those.

TL:DR I do this because of my hearing issues. In public this is a dick move, but headphones aren't the solution they use to be.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

but headphones aren’t the solution they use to be.

Not true. There’s air conduction, bone conduction(which is the same technology for people who actually do experience hearing loss), wired, non wired, in ear, over ear, on ear, noise cancelling and these are not that expensive that you can get it online so it’s super accessible.

It’s not the early 2000s anymore where you only get buds or on ear or whatever apple bullshit comes with your phone.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Agreed, though sadly this doesn't apply to me. Hearing issues doesn't always mean hearing loss. I have Auditory Processing Disorder or Auditory Dyslexia means my hearing is good, but I don't always understand what people are saying.

Speaker phone makes it easier for me to understand what the other person is saying. But again its a dick move to use it in public.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Is that what it's called when other noise makes you not understand what people are saying?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Pretty much. The inability to filter voices from other noises. Not fun when you are on a bus and the engine is the only thing you can make out

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

And why I avoid noisy bars and stuff. I noticed once during the fire drill at work, we were all standing outside and the loud alarm was beeping like a truck backing up and the whole time I couldn't make out what people were saying. I could hear the noises coming from their mouths, but couldn't understand a thing.

Alarm stopped and I could understand them fine.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Is it the Dichotic listening part? Airpod Pros might do wonders.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I have noise cancelling Sony earbuds for a while now. At this point I've just gotten use to how people talk, and guessing at what they said and I missed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What happened when you tried the bone conducting type? What we’re your findings with this one?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I didn't try those yet. I presume it wouldn't be helpful since I need noise isolation and blocking. Not sure if they do that

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

People don't have their headphones turned on and in easy reach at all times. If you're doing this in a private space, who cares?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I don’t. I’m responding to the argument that headphones are not what they used to be. that is incorrect. There is more selection and varying types should one be selecting a pair.

[–] Qwaffle_waffle 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

I feel this too with the hearing issues, but I have moved away to texting rather than calls mostly. Social took a hit, but I'm still here anyways.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Yup, texting is my go to for most of the time. However I want to catch up, I usually arrange a call.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Are you over 35? If a friend calls me on the phone something bad's happened.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Wired headphones are the preferable solution to this but we all know what happened to those.

What happened? I use wired headphones, haven't had any problems recently.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

iPhone, iPad, and most Samsungs don't have a 3.5mm headphone jack.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Ohhh, I completely forgot iPhones no longer had those. Thanks for the reminder, I'll remember to check for a headphone jack before buying a new phone.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

The new iphones now have USB c so it's not as bad as it use to be, since USB c dongles can be cross device compatible. But yeah it suuucks.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

It's not a mandatory feature for me personally, but I absolutely prefer having an actual headphone jack and die a little inside when a new phone doesn't

You can "get around" that by using a usb c to 3.5mm audio adaptor, or a y adaptor that's a 3.5mm audio and another USBC to allow for charging at the same time