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It's probably a number game. If you can redefine something to fit a larger group, you can have more people falling under that. And internalized asexophobia. Like, there isn't anything wrong with not wanting sex at all, it should be just is.
Don't get me on the trauma thing. I'm actually quite sick of the idea that trauma changes one's sexuality. No, it doesn't. We don't even know why someone is that way since birth, or explanations to case studies of sexuality shifts or larger studies like those of Lisa Diamonds'. At the end of the day, every evidence points to no known causation of sexual orientation. Genetics didn't fit, nor environment variables often don't fit, and so on as in we just don't know exactly how sexual orientation came to be. In my case, all I can tell you is that the magnitude of my sexual attraction has waned down, and then eventually my frequency of sexual attraction has waned down, and that is toward the course of a year, and it died out when I was around 16 years old never to be revived again.