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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tight jeans and hoodies were my go-to early on. I hope you can reach a point where you dont have to hide from family or anyone.

Karamo from Queer Eye says you let people in instead of coming out because youre the one with the power to understand yourself more than anyone else and your feelings are final. No one has the power to accept or deny you except those you decide to let in. You set those boundaries and be yourself and be comfortable too. Anyone else can get the hell over it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Letting people in instead of coming out. I like that. That's a much better way of wording it and keeping the power with us. I love it, thanks for sharing

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Thank you for the kind words

I personally find tight jeans, and jeans in general, to be uncomfortable but you do you