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Hi y’all, I’ve been (slowly) doing my transition for almost 2 years now and it’s mostly good. I didn’t really have any plan in place when I started, just the vague idea of maybe transitioning. I think I’m running into this problem because of how my brain developed. I’m really bad at planning out past a year because all my life I assumed I wouldn’t make it past 21. So, is there some sort of guide on the steps of transition? Preferably a wiki sort of thing. I’ve looked a bit but nothing has caught my eye.

It’s not super important but it’d really help me figure out how to proceed. Like okay, I’m on HRT and that’s going fine, so now what? I guess I’m a bit lost.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As a lot of other comments said, what stuff you choose to do or not do is completely up to you, but I think I relate to the want for some kind of guide, just to get an idea of what's possible in one's transition. The closest thing I am aware of is this video, "The Transfemme Field Guide:" https://youtu.be/xJHlNX56K2E

It's not really a guide giving steps on how to transition, it's more of a collection of tips and advice on various aspects of transitioning, so you can pick and choose which advice to follow. Hope this helps!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I think that’s pretty much what I was looking for, thank you!