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Imagine being afraid of the ‘friend zone’ (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

seen-this-one extreme horniness + emotional immaturity + unaddressed misogyny + a feeling of entitlement to sex + romantic rejection = upset about being "friendzoned"

it happens to a lot of folks, and no doubt it hurts like hell, but once they see the ingredients, they realize the problem and they can choose to grow... or get worse.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Damn if all the romantic poets, pining away for unrequited love, simply realized they were only misogynists. Lol.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

A lot of them definitely were lol

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Quite a few entertainers and musicians in history were arguably misogynistic under a closer analysis and their fame doesn't really excuse or justify that. "Lol."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

If the romantic poets were complaining bitterly about how they've been wronged by women because they don't want to date them then yeah maybe they were