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The mods there have decided to allow underage looking content, skirting close to CP. Unless we want such disgusting stuff on our feed, I think we should defederate from that instance.

Pinging @ernest as well.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (94 children)

and now the federation drama begins...

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

There is nothing dramatic about it. Defederating from problematic instances is nothing new for federated platforms.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Access to content should not be difficulted by puritan views. If people enjoy gore and create an instance about gore in movies showing very explicit (yet fictional) images of dismemberments and stuff in movies it should be banned too because is morally questionable?

If you can't distinguish between fiction and reality it should be a you problem not the whole instance you are inhabiting problem

What do you think about this? (sorry the article is in Spanish, but there is no English article)

https://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ni%C3%B1os_en_la_playa

It's a painting exposed in an important museum

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Access to content should be based on LEGALITY though. And it turns out this is ILLEGAL in a lot of places.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Michelangelo's David is pornography in a lot of places. let's forbid it everywhere

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Why not just create a separate account for nsfw stuff? Why would you need it on the front page of your main account while scrolling anyways?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Let's flip that argument: should we all abide by American standards? After all, nudity is ok in a lot of places in the world, why should we blur chests?

Tons of countries ban underage looking things, even digital art of it. Countries with bans include Canada, Australia, the UK, France, South Korea, Ireland, Norway, etc.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

And, uh, Poland. You know. That place where ernest is from, and whose laws he's beholden to.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We're not talking about pornography laws that were enacted with no basis in harm reduction, we're talking about child porn laws that were enacted to not encourage and normalize pedophiles and pedophilia.

Some laws are justifiable, some are arguable, and some are completely unjustifiable, throwing out an unjustifiable one in contrast to a firmly justifiable one is not debating, it's childish nonsense.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

lgbt people are illegal in the middle east. should we ban lgbt people too?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Underage fictional content is banned in first world countries like South Korea, Ireland, Norway, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and France. Do you really want to lump the very real discrimination that LGBTQ people face with someone's desire to get off to a 5 year old, sorry - 5000 year old school girl?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

loli/shota don't refer to underage fictional content.

I think this loli/shota hate can indeed lead to real oppression yes. I'm an adult, I look like a minor. Do you believe it should be illegal for me to send nsfw photos of myself to people? To have a relationship with another adult? simply because I look underage? This is the sort of thing we're talking about here. Should I be banned from posting pics of myself simply because of the way I look?

lemmynsfw already explicitly stated they ban underage content. so to bring up underage content is dishonest.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think this confusion comes from the phrasing of the original post, which was ambiguous about allowing underage content. Also, there's a difference between being an adult and looking teenage, and looking like a literal child (which I doubt you do). But regardless of appearances, you're a real person whose age we can verify. And yes, I'm a proponent of verifying people's ages.

An ambiguous image of a person that looks 10, but whose creator insists she's a 5000 year old dragon, doesn't hold up in many courts. Many international courts say "nice try but that's a 10 year old". And I don't disagree with them. Overall I just don't get it? Why the need to have that stuff on the major NSFW instance? By all means, put it on a side instance that can get blocked and banned, and if you really need to see it, either join a Lemmy that's super lax or roll your own.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Again, loli does not refer to age. You're confused. There are underage and underage looking anime characters. some who are loli and some who are not.

this isn't "they're a child and I just say they're older". non-loli anime children look different from loli anime adults.

lemmynsfw is clearly banning underage content and content that looks underage.

no matter how much you wish to try and twist words, the reality is that "oppai loli" is a thing that exists, and simply cannot refer to a child. to say that such is a child just shows you do not understand biology.

In terms of legality, I agree that if the server host is somewhere with particular laws, it's understandable that those laws must be followed. Perhaps lemmynsfw's ruling leads to illegal content for wherever kbin is hosted. In that case, I think it is fine for kbin to defederate.

Loli/shota do not refer to age. And lemmynsfw afaik has not allowed illegal content.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I looked underage for most of my adult life thus far, guess what I did? Dealt with it and enjoyed my life, I didn't insist that we should be able to freely publish nudes of myself so that pedos can jerk off to them.

Hell we're not even talking about free society here, if you look underage but are overage you're still free to exhibit your body in whatever art exhibit you want, digital or irl, that doesn't mean kbin should allow potentially illegal loli content to show up in users' feeds.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Did you not read my comment? I just said that if it is indeed illegal where the server is hosted, then defederating to follow such laws is understandable and okay.

If it's not illegal though? no issue.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I'm confused by your definition. When googling Loli, you get the lolicon Wikipedia page which has an image of girls that look... I'd say maybe 10? And Loli is named after Lolita, who in the book is like 12? I'm not seeing anywhere linking the definition of Loli to women that look clearly 18+ in any way. I'm not even seeing strong ties between Loli and girls that look 16.

My argument is that to appease the large number of countries that ban drawn lolicon, the biggest NSFW instance should take a safe stance and ban that content across the board. I don't care if other instances serve the needs of those who love lolicon, I'm happy to personally block any that pop up even if my instance doesn't. But the biggest NSFW instance can distances themselves. This is clearly a contentious issue and it is one that the international community hasn't made a firm decision on.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Underage fictional content is banned in first world countries like South Korea, Ireland, Norway, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and France.

Ireland is a third world country, literally

The term "Third World" arose during the Cold War and it was used to define countries that remained non-aligned with either NATO or the Warsaw Pact.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_World

And Ireland remained neutral, like other countries Finland, Sweden, Switzerland or Austria, making those countries third world countries, literally

Saying or implying third world countries are underdeveloped/poor countries is just a really bad stereotipe and shows your inculture

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yeah ok, I really love that Reddit's crappy pedantry about stuff that doesn't matter is bleeding into the new world. First world, to most of us not using 50 year old definitions, means countries universally accepted to have decent human rights. The topic reeled into the Middle East's laws surrounding LGBTQ people, which is a shit argument when talking about banning underage looking content which happens even in countries with great LGBTQ rights. Let's not pretend that the world is this fantastic equal place where the human experience is just dandy across the board.

Also I'm from a third world country! Yugoslavia was the founder of the neutral Non-Aligned movement. That makes it, by most definitions, third world.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Comparing the defederation of an instance for allowing underage sexual content with the very real discrimination faced by LGBTQ+ people is one of the shittiest takes I have seen.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

lemmynsfw explicitly stated they don't allow underage content.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Yeah even fictional suggestive content is illegal in Canada. And I'm glad!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have no idea about the context of that painting, but I don't think the children are being sexualised in it. The under-age content that will be posted on lemmynsfw (fictional or not) will definitely be sexual in nature, and that is deeply problematic and might also be illegal in several countries. They can do whatever they want with their instance, but the users of kbin.social shouldn't have to be looking at such content.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lemmynsfw said they don't allow underage content though. so that's unrelated to their ruling. their ruling applies to adult content, not underage.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (19 children)

The linked post is saying they will allow non-irl underage-looking content.

That is illegal in Canada.

163.1 (1) In this section, child pornography means

(a) a photographic, film, video or other visual representation, whether or not it was made by electronic or mechanical means,

(i) that shows a person who is or is depicted as being under the age of eighteen years and is engaged in or is depicted as engaged in explicit sexual activity

https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/c-46/section-163.1.html

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

but the users of kbin.social shouldn't have to be looking at such content.

Idk, as kbin.social user I was not looking to such content until you mentioned it. And since I don't follow that instance I will not be looking to such content in the future

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You do "follow" that instance because you are part of kbin.social which is federated with it. You could go in and block each of the magazines/threads from there or whatever the term is on Lemmy, and block the users you don't want to see content from, but kbin.social is federated with lemmynsfw, so that content has the ability to show up in your "all" or "random" feeds unless we defederate -which is the question being asked. So you very well could really l easily have that content in your feed in the best future

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can go make an account on porn instances or whatever for yourself. I have nsfw content blocked, and I blocked the community in question already. I'm not here for porn. There's a million other places you can get your porn.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm not here for porn. There's a million other places you can get your porn.

Me neither (people can see the magazines I follow, that's public), that's why I don't have a problem with NSFW instances doing whatever they want.

I'm not here to impose my personal views onto others neither

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

With the rapid growth of Lemmy and the fediverse in general, a lot of nsfw stuff isn't getting properly tagged. I don't want to see it. I wish I didn't have to. Saw a giant wang yesterday against my will. So I'd rather it just wasn't allowed, since there are literally a million other ways to get your porn fix. But there aren't a million other active forums for everything else here.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (21 children)

The lengths people will go to to defend paedos is striking.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The venn diagram of pedo supporters and alt right is almost a circle.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Go find your shitty twisted instance and sit there with the rest of the 4chan incels if you want, but you don't need that instance federated with anyone else.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you want legally questionable material, gore, or other shit, you're free to spin up your own instance. Your access to it is not being fettered.

You're just not entitled to access it using someone else's website.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

this isn't problematic. there's literally nothing illegal about lemmynsfw. since there is nothing illegal on there, it's not problematic. that simple.

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