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[AskFinance] How often do you eat out, and does that impact your finances? (discuss.tchncs.de)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Asking the question as it seems to be a recurrent issue among finance-aware people.

Also if people have tips to save money on eating out or cooking, feel free to share!

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

I used to eat out almost every night and it cost me nearly as much as my rent.

Since then, I learned some cooking, some 10-min stuff, and did a lot of personal work on emotional eating. I really tried to treat it like an addiction, learning alternatives but also, recently I moved to a less urban area where I'd have to walk 10-15mins to get decent food, when I used to have an all you can eat sushi place on my street. That helped more than anything else!

Finally, I gave myself a couple of special things: given how much I was spending on restaurants I never hesitate to spend a lot on cookware or ingredients, and when my partner comes over we often choose a cool recipe to try out, in order to prove to myself that food can be really great even if it's not made by someone else.

Now I go out for dinner only if I'm with someone, and I make sure it's always a special occasion (including a date with my partner, it doesn't have to be super special, just not "I don't feel like cooking"). It's still very hard not to go out when I'm having a tough day but I've never done so well :)